Why you should and why you shouldn't ?

Why you should and why you shouldn't make the first move??

SHOULD

1. When he is the first guy u r attracted to,after meeting...maybe about 400 guys but no one really caught your eyes.

2. You know he already fell for you by looking at his cues.

3. When your meeting is something planned by both your parents and that your mother would kill you if u object.

4. He is so shy yet he's hot. He only talks about 10 words within 10 minutes conversation.

5. You're determined enough and not afraid of rejection at all.

SHOULDN'T

1. He is cute and cool and smart and all...but he's such a...jerk?

2. He is prone to openness that he would talk about you asking him out to everyone he knows.

3. He told you that you look like someone else, especially someone he adores...or his ex...ewww

4. Because of our culture and norms. Girls are meant to wait for guys to make the first move.
5. Girls should play hard to get...a bit, right?

6. He is your best friend's ex.

7. You know he's attached to someone else.

8. He's giving you mixed signals all the time.

9. There are always many... I mean a lot of girls around him all the time.

Now you know why you shouldn't start it. I mean there are more 'shouldn'ts' than 'shoulds' from my point of view, especially if you're a malay girl. Dan tak semua yang kita harapkan akan jadi kenyataan. Yang pastinya, Allah Maha Mengetahui apa yang terbaik untuk diri kita. Sama-samalah kita berdoa untuk jodoh yang terbaik dari Allah.InsyaAllah.

~ ShE ~ ♥

SHE

she said don't fall in love in school

boys are playing around with you

she said you must wear something sweet and soft

otherwise people will ask about her upbringing

sha said love your books, not your CDs

she's afraid you will forget how to read

she said you should tidy up your room

or she will throw your things outside

she said go find someone decent to love

she doesn't want you to taste the bitterness

she said you should learn how to cook

so your husband will not run away

she said never forget your family

it is where you run to

everytime the going gets tough

she never said to not forget her

but as long as you remember everything she said

she will always be in your heart

that's your mother...

*myearlypoems.nad*

~ HER0 ~

HERO

I wannabe a superhero
making history
making my mother cries in joy
I should be a superhero
standing on every lifeline
making way through every gap
I can be a superhero
watching you fall
and bring you back when you're gone
I wannabe a superhero
painted on papers
streaming through radio waves
but where were you when I was trying to be one?
when I was sruggling to be one?
when I truly believed in what I was supposed to be?
*myearlypoems.nad*

~ LivING iN hOPes ~

LIVING IN HOPES

Let us pray

for hopes tomorrow

let us ask

for peace of mind

the world is an inevitable reality

you stumble, you fall

yet you can always rise and stand again

they always try to bring you down

make you scared being alone

leaving scars in your heart

though the fact is you forget

about yourself

you left yourself behind

thinking about what the future holds...

*myearlypoems.nad*

~ The OnLY cHaNce ~

THE ONLY CHANCE

They say it's a tradition

It is like something that validates a girl's life

they say you have to wait for that special someone

they say the time will come when it is meant to be

A girl cannot just walk up to him

and tell him she adores him

but sometimes the special someone that you thought

has just appeared right before your eyes

will just walk away

without you having a chance to say a word

but they say you'll know

when the time comes

he will not walk away

even though you do not say anything at all...

*myearlypoems*nad*

~ YOu'rE mY eNDing ~

YOU'RE MY ENDING

I am willing to be killed for your existence
i am willing to let you live in the light of my destruction
i am willing to just breath in the air for you to be alive
i am willing to go under as long as you are safe and well

it is hurtful to sound so extreme
but it is an extremely dangerous uninviting feeling
that lies deep inside my soul
It is so deep i can never interpret it into something
beautiful to you

maybe it sounds a little ridiculous
yet it is like writing a novel
i cannot stop until i reach the ending
that lies beneath your heart...

*myearlypoems*nad*

~ iNViSiBLe ~

INVISIBLE

Maybe I can never stop the pain in your heart

Maybe it is best that I only watch over you from afar

Maybe it is fated that you are not the one to be my next bestfriend

But I think you should know that your words can heal my wounds

Your smile can lift my spirit up above the sky

Yet your existence makes me cry

You know I can never touch your heart more that just a little bit

When I really want to know you deeper

But it is a hopeless hope I can never call it a reality

since I am invisible to your very eyes

*myearlypoems*nad*